Raising Jay & Abel

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Heydy Lopez

For The Babes, Giveaways

My Fallen Star Giveaway!

It’s finally here!! I am so so so excited for my first giveaway series. In this Series you will have the chance to win 20 different items! Each day I will be adding an item that YOU have the chance to win! Today, Cierra Larsen of www.myfallenstar.com has generously offered to giveaway one of her sugar skull T-shirts (size 6 months to 12 youth)!  This tee is unisex so you can either dress it up with  black tutu or your son can wear some  ...

For The Mamas, Style & Beauty

Style x Raisingjayandabel – Eshakti

Alright mamas [and of course non-mamas], this ones for you. Ever since I gave birth to Abel, I haven’t felt the same about myself. I’ve been dressing in the “mom uniform” pretty much every single day, except for “special occasions”. Not being able to fit into my “pre-pregnancy” clothes has been a huge personal struggle for me [more on that later] and you will never catch me in a pair of jeans.  ...

For The Mamas, Motherhood

5 questions I have been asked about being a Teen Mom

Over the past 8 years I’ve transitioned from being a teen mom, to a young mom, to just mom.  I’ve always felt that society has categorized me of my mom status based on my age and it got me thinking about all the questions I’ve encountered since becoming a teen mom. Some of the questions are just uncalled for and I don’t know why people think that it is ok to ask them! Nonetheless, I decided to share the most repeated  ...

Giveaways, Shop Features & Reviews

Burp Necessity REVIEW + GIVEAWAY

When Abel was born, I thought it would be exactly (or easier) the same when I had Jayden. I was so wrong. Not only are the experiences the complete opposite but I also had to relearn how to be a mom to a baby. One major difference was that Abel was diagnosed with baby reflux. Reflux is the word to describe what happens when the stomach contents (food or milk) come back up into the mouth. Baby reflux happens because the babies digestive  ...

Giveaways, Shop Features & Reviews

Freshly Picked Moccasins REVIEW + GIVEAWAY

I discovered Freshly Picked when I was making my wish list (and of course, checking it twice) while I was 3 months pregnant with Abel. As soon as I laid eyes on these perfectly crafted moccasins, I just knew I had to have them! After lusting over them for about a year, I finally have a pair! and not just to own, but to review! About a month ago, I reached out and connected with the Freshly Picked team. To be honest, I was quite nervous of  ...

Giveaways, Shop Features & Reviews

All about essential oils + GIVEAWAY

Ever wondered about essential oils? Well here is a quick 411 on what an essential is and how you can use them in your every day life! What is an essential oil? Essential oils are aromatic compounds found in the seeds, bark, stems, roots, flowers, and other parts of plats. They can be both beautifully and powerfully fragrant. doTERRA (CPTG) Certified Pure Therapeutic Grade essential oils represent the safest, purest, and most beneficial  ...


Just the two of us

Hello Kismetlove readers ! My name is Heydy. I am Jayden and Abel’s mommy. I blog over at www. raisingjayandabel.blogspot.com. I am so thrilled and honoured to be sharing my breastfeeding journey with you! Our breastfeeding journey has been…well.. quite a rollercoaster [and I’m still on it]. I knew that breastfeeding wasn’t going to be a breeze for the first couple weeks [at least for me]. I had to learn a new, world  ...


Hello Monday

Anybody else feel like this pineapple and want to float on water all day ? It’s Monday morning, and I’ve already exerted all the energy I’ve gained from my first cup of coffee! (mama’s do you feel me?). I am quickly writing this, since Abel is screaming and grasping my foot, and Jayden is asking for a snack. This week, I will try to exude more patience when dealing with a crying and teething baby. Because I know, as  ...


Fathers Day

I was asked to blog about my biggest personal struggle thus far. This means opening up to all my readers, if any…Being an open book doesn’t come easy to me. Especially since I’ve gone through so much in the 23 years of living on this earth. I had so many things running through my head. Which subject I wanted to write about… and then it hit me. One of the MAJOR things that formed the person I am today was growing up  ...